Trophy winning deserts.

For women, sex is a cookie. A simple reward given many times over her life time. A treat quickly devoured and quickly forgotten. The event is further minimized by her ability to sneak a cookie from the jar when no one is looking. The thrill for her is the desire and secrecy, the knowledge that she can have a cookie when ever she wants, despite what some may say is good for her.

For men, sex is a ribbon, some times even a trophy. A hard fought victory over ones peers, a rare occasion to be celebrated and remembered. There are no easy victories for it is the contest or hunt which the trophy represents. The trophy it's self is only a representation of the journey which harvested it. The more the better some may say.

The pastry can be delicious, it can be homemade, it can be loving. Too often it is cheap and empty.

The trophy can be glorious and proud. It can mean a job well done. Too often it is just an object, among many.