reconcile

It makes me happy that a women of your caliber would come find me at the bar. I'm not sure what im supposed to think about that. I want you ( and all women) to feel comfortable around me and I have not gotten to a point where I know how to balance my attraction for a woman and how to express that with out fading into the back ground of the daily chaos beating down your bedroom door. Im lucky to call you friend. And thats enough for me but dont for one second think that I dont think you are incredibly sexy and just as intelligent.

I have decided to write a book.

How to be a man when your world is dominated by women.

Women have yet to grasp their roll in every decision made by the "male" psyche and thus are ignorant to their inherent power. Men have yet to admit the gravity of female influence and it's domination of the outcome of most "male" decisions and are thus ignorant to their latent influence.  This is fortunate, because if either side were to admit how much influence they are subject to, or in turn, how much responsibility they hold over the other, they would cease to be what they are: different.

Male is defined as something dominate
and Female is defined as something subjective

Until you redefine these two words, your arguments about one doing something to the other are invalid.

Do not come to me with your arguments about gender politics if you are not fully prepared to rewire the definition of both in the opposing minds of each group.